About Decide Your Legacy

Adam Gragg, CEO

Adam Gragg is a life and legacy coach, speaker, and licensed clinical family therapist with over 25 years of experience helping people and organizations thrive. As the founder of Decide Your Legacy, Adam has guided thousands of individuals, families, and leaders toward greater clarity, confidence, and purpose.

Adam believes that lasting transformation begins with courage—specifically, the courage to face fear and live with intention. His coaching approach is deeply practical, blending proven psychological tools with reflective exercises that help clients clarify their values, strengthen relationships, and make meaningful life changes.

Known for his authenticity and humor, Adam connects easily with people from all walks of life. Whether coaching an executive through a major transition or helping someone rebuild self-confidence, his passion is to see clients move from confusion and fear to clarity and hope.

Adam specializes in anxiety, life transitions, and personal growth. His core philosophy is simple but powerful: consistent reflection and courageous action lead to freedom and fulfillment.

Through Decide Your Legacy, Adam continues to inspire others to live the life today they want to be remembered for ten years from now—a life defined by purpose, resilience, and joy.

Kelsey Torkelson, Brand Manager

Kelsey Torkelson is an experienced professional with a strong academic foundation in Psychology and English Education. Born and raised in Johnson, Kansas, Kelsey combines her understanding of human behavior with a passion for effective communication, making her uniquely equipped to lead, teach, and connect across diverse environments.

With over two decades of experience in education and community engagement, Kelsey is known for her thoughtful approach, strong interpersonal skills, and ability to foster growth in both individuals and organizations. Her dual background allows her to bridge the gap between emotional intelligence and clear, impactful messaging—whether in a classroom, organizational setting, or collaborative project.

Kelsey has been married to her husband, Jeff, for 25 years. They like to travel to Florida as often as possible because Kelsey is fueled by sunshine. She is passionate about mentoring teenagers and young adults and if you really want to see her smile ask her about her dogs.

Sherman Orr, Coach

I was born and raised in Wichita, Kansas, where I developed an early interest in science and exploration. This passion led me to pursue a degree in Physics, driven by a deep sense of curiosity and a desire to understand the world around me. Yet, beyond the world of science, I felt a profound spiritual calling that redirected my path. I went on to attend seminary, earning a Master’s in Theology, and was eventually ordained as a priest. For the next 33 years, I had the privilege of serving diverse communities, offering guidance, support, and leadership rooted in compassion, wisdom, and faith.

Now, in this new chapter of life, I bring the same depth of experience, insight, and care to my work as a business coach. Drawing on decades of mentoring, conflict resolution, strategic thinking, and organizational leadership within faith-based settings, I now help entrepreneurs, leaders, and professionals unlock their potential and find purpose in their work. My approach combines practical tools with a values-driven mindset, allowing clients to achieve success that is both meaningful and sustainable. Retirement from ministry has not meant stepping away from service—it has simply transformed how I serve. Coaching allows me to continue empowering others, helping them navigate challenges and reach their goals with clarity and confidence.